Blahaj_Blast

joined 2 years ago
[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

Or if you try to stiff customers on the copper quality

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

@slaybyjess on YouTube has very short and to the point tutorials. I also am looking to start but haven't done anything yet, but she makes it seem understandable.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago

Haven't seen Earth-Chan in a while 😂

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Always and forever

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago

"yeah but not in the way you're thinking"

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Hey! I don't have much for advice, but I want to say you are so not alone! Almost 2 years ago I was in almost the same exact boat. It did take me longer to get comfortable with the idea I am trans and what to do with it, and my kids were a bit younger, but same! Same concerns.

My wife was also very hesitant, but came around to loving me for me and well see how the changes go. I haven't done anything too drastic yet, (neurodivergent tendencies make me stupid cautious and very slow to change) but I'm super interested in HRT. That alone was difficult to actually admit to myself.

Idk where exactly I wanted to go with this other than let you know others have gone through almost the exact same scenario.

Also put together a bit after figuring myself out, "oh shit!" one of my kids might be too!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

Where can I get vers surgery?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

A woman hates her granddaughter and forces her son to live in the walls of the house.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 month ago (2 children)

The military IT is about to suffer

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)
 

Seeing those thin women that sooo have that hourglass shape.

OR even just those women with noticeable hips! Ugh! I feel so jealous! I wish I could do HRT, but with everything going on, I feel like it's safer to put it off, especially since my disphoria isn't too severe at.

Just a vent, I guess.

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Fuck nazi scum! (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Edit: yeah I didn't make it. If I did I wouldn't censor it either. That shit is out of hand. I just liked the style and message.

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First? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

Hi lezzies!

I am a new-ish lesbian, just realized 1.5 years ago.

How goes it? And how has there not already been a lezzy group here? On the queerest instance I know?

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You know it (files.catbox.moe)
 
 

I feel so embarrassed even considering certain things!

I know 'just trying it out' shouldn't be a big deal, but in my mind, it is. Even though I know it shouldn't be.

Can anyone else relate? It's like consciously, yeah it's just a thing. It's not inherently gendered (clothes, makeup whatever) But! I can't help but feel so embarrassed to try some shit

My partner has been extremely supportive thus far and is ready to explore with me, but shit is so embarrassing!

My guess is internalized "feminine is less than masculine" and I'm not sure how to get past it? Anyone else? Please? Advice? Am making sense?

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Sharkey questions? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Mainly about blusky.

I've noticed some people I follow on Facebook/twitter/youtube/tiktok migrating to bsky.social and my understanding was that misskey/sharkey is supposed to be able to federated with bsky and Mastodon, but several bsky accounts I've not been able to find from blåhaj sharkey. I'm wondering if it's been defederated or maybe they don't federate as well as I thought? Any assistance or advice is much appreciated!

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Girl tips? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

Hai! I'm new-ish here. I've known for a bit I'm trans, but barely started anything substantial really. I'm easing into it, but I've had this thing stuck in my mind recently.

Whats something relatively small or cheap/easy that helps make you feel girl? I have a few loungey clothes and stuff and been working on body hair removal but I'm looking for something... Else? I'm not sure what. Just thought this could be a good place for ideas or advice.

I'm just looking for new easy ideas that might help me feel more 'at home'? Idk I wanna be a comfy chill relaxed girl.

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Well... (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Not me, but an amazing pep talk I didn't know I needed! 🏳️‍⚧️

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