[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

That wasn't my point.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Germany enters the chat.

[-] [email protected] 54 points 3 days ago

Personally I find it a lot more disturbing that intersex babies are still assgined a binary gender by a doctor and then get surgery to shape their genitals. The parents are often scaremongered and pressured into consenting and the affected people don't know it was done to them until firmly into adulthood. It's often a sterilising surgery too.

If you are against doctors doing gender changing surgery, please start with the babies? But oh no! Then the argument that there are only two genders falls apart.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

True. But I'd also like to see a reduction of seemingly general purpose down voting. There seem to be users who do nothing but down vote everything in sight.

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It depends a lot on the situation. My exparents lived with my paternal exgrandparents until I was 8. Completely seperate households tho. Just in the same house.

If theres a partner and kids it's important that everyone negotiates boundaries and communicates well. If it's one household the chores and finances need to be shared in a way that works and so on.

Personally I moved out as early as I could because these people are abusive. I find it awe inspiring that you manage to coexist peacefully when everyone is an adult. If it works for you it works for you. In many cultures living with your parents is normal. I think worrying about what other people think, those that won't pay your rent and don't interact with your family isn't productive. You're the one who has to live with the decisions you make.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

If this person doesn't have white skin, isn't christian or gender conforming there's a whole host of other horror stories that apply tho.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago

Jokes on you. Now you buy twice as much and neither likes it. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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You and me both.

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[-] [email protected] 66 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Healthcare, electoral college, how supreme court justices are elected, first past the post voting system.

Edit: and the self assurance to nitpick a foreigner over the details of how justices come into their job.

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It got cold enough to restart her job as a sun worshipper again.

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It's too warm and we both do our best to cope.

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She later complained it was boring and to indoorsy too.

[-] [email protected] 51 points 6 months ago

Telling me I should forgive/contact my abusive exfamily. Especially after knowing me for less than 30 mins and them not at all.

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I just love this video! Not sure if it counts as a meme tho. ๐Ÿ˜…

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