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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/HugeStrategy6184 on 2024-01-22 16:35:21+00:00.
I have a stepdaughter that is getting married. I have never been seen as her dad, she has made that extremely clear when she was growing up and more. I had two other step-kids besides her which got along well with me and they agreed to let me adopt them. I’m just gonna call those two the kids.
My stepdaughter to this day have a rough relationship. She still makes it clear I am not her dad even if her siblings view me as such.
My son got married and I paid for his wedding, my stepdaughter is getting married and she asked me to pay for her wedding. I told her no and when I did that for her brother it was a gift from his father. I am not her dad and I highly doubt I would be walking her down the aisle.
She called me a jackass. My wife is torn and we came here.