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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/Wernner77 on 2024-01-22 19:08:06+00:00.
My wife(29F) and I(29M) decided to go to my side of the family for Thanksgiving. We asked what they wanted us to bring and they told us no that the food was going to be ordered in instead. They asked for $100 from each family and it seemed a little high to us but we said whatever and gave it.
A couple days before Thanksgiving I texted them and asked what they would order and it was something my wife I didn't eat and they reused to change it so I had to play the pregnant card in order for them to changed the food hey did but reluctantly. A day before Thanksgiving I asked what time the food was getting picked up and what time we should be there. They told us to be there at 6:30 because they were picking up the food at 6. So when they day of Thanksgiving came we decided to take our son to the park for a bit and do some chores.
Around 4:30 I get a call from my mom telling to to go now because they picked up the food early and everyone is there already. None of us was ready we all needed to shower and shower our 4 year old. So between them not wanting to accommodate for the food to the point of having to pull the pregnancy card but then they picked up the food early.
So I decided to text them and tell them to give me my money back because we didn't want to go eat cold or reheated food for thanksgiving while everyone else already ate. So AITA for asking for my money back and spending it with just my wife and son?