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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/Nervous-Finish-7464 on 2024-01-23 15:22:52+00:00.
My two girls do not get along, it has to deal with some jealously issues my oldest daughter has towards her younger sister. This has been a issue since they have been in the same middle school. My oldest is in 8th grade and my youngest is in 6th grade.
The issue started when my youngest started doing better in school. She would come home with straight As. My oldest is good academically also but she is usually a B student and getting an A is a big deal for her. That came to a head when my oldest started telling the youngest she didn’t deserve her grade. We put her in counseling after that.
Overall the relationship has not been getting better. The main issue at the moment is my oldest calling her sister shallow for the things she likes and keeps commenting she is popular mean girl ( we looked into this, she hasn’t done anything wrong)
My youngest birthday is coming up and she want to do to the indoor water park with a few of her friends. We do parties for both girls so this was fine. She asked if she could have this without her sister since her attitude would ruin her day.
I talked it over with my spouse and we agreed that I would go and watch the kids and he would stay home with the oldest.
Everyone is happy but my oldest, she thinks we are major jerks for not allowing her to go even after we explained why multiple time.
Edit: bolded a sentence
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