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i.e. a lazy person calling you lazy or someone uneducated about something thinking you're the uninformed one

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[–] [email protected] 53 points 2 days ago

Yes, that's projection.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago

It's also called standard American conservative politics.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago

Yes that is projection, which is a form of hypocrisy.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

I think "projection" works. I thought of "external attribution" as well when I read this question.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Edit: preemptive “no you”lol

To be understood, I’d probably just say projection, but if you need to emphasize a specific aspect of the behavior, we could break it down as:

  1. an existing insecurity or shame that
  2. prompts momentary social anxiety
  3. evidenced by a defensive impulse
  4. to preemptively introject

Explanation: introjection refers to a mirroring behavior, the kind often seen in children. In this case, the accuser anticipates an accusation from you which threatens or hurts them. To defend themselves, they hurl the accusation right back at you. But of course the first accusation only happened in their head, so all we witness is someone wildly accusing someone else of having their own flaw without any justification.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

It really is childish behavior which is why it's such an annoying situation. Literally dealing with a delusional toddler defending yourself against things that never happened.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

I call it Maganomics

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

Dunning-Kruger adjacent projection

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

It takes one to know one.

The pot calling the kettle black.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

It's you who's projecting here, not me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Projection, or machiavellianism.