I don't think "not optional" means what they think it means.
I guarantee you that if we do nothing at all, it will deorbit on its own thanks to friction from air molecules it passes through in orbit. Humans only occupy 14.5% of the surface of the planet, so even in an uncontrolled deorbit it seems like the odds would be against any property damage or loss of life.
An uncontrolled deorbit might be reckless. It might not be recommended. But it's definitely an option.