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The original was posted on /r/inceltear by /u/kawaiihusbando on 2024-08-03 09:54:03+00:00.
I'm an introvert but once I've vibed with some-one I would yap with them until they would almost pass-out, lmao.
Once dated a so-called extrovert who people called out-going and a good listener but barely spoke.
Drove me nuts. I yapped and yapped, she would just nod, said HMM or YEAH from time to time. I so wanted to know what was going up in her mind, her interests, her opinions and tons of other things from her. I even wanted arguments, preferably healthy ones but to be honest, even toxic/un-healthy ones should be better than leaving me high and dry.
I wanted tons of interesting convos, discussions, rants, vents where we would pour our hearts, minds, spirits and bodies back and forth to each-other.
I wasn't un-happy because I was bored but because I was disappointed that she wasn't comfortable enough to confide and vent to me ☹️
Also, again, why do incels like their SOs to barely speak and voice-out their opinions when most men would feel sad and frustrated by all that? Make me understand.
Also, a friend of a friend who's a psychologist who's into MBTI said I was never an introvert because of my love of yapping. My ex's friend was also a friend of the said psychologist. He said my ex was also not an extrovert because she's always been the silent-type.
Me and my ex disputed the claims made by him because extroversion/introversion is measured by the way you recharge, not by your yappiness. Right? No?
Anyway, is it possible for a homebody who loves to yap to be an introvert and some-one who loves going to events but barely talks to be an extrovert? If so, how?
I am ISTJ meanwhile she's ENFP.
Incels/Red-Pillers don't want their SOs to voice out their mind and they got the gall to call women boring but when The SOs want to create an interesting conversation, they would get mad. I don't understand. Please make me understand.
Thanks and goodday to all of ya'll 🤠
TL; DR - - - - > I am a yappy, introverted ISTJ and my ex's a stoic, extroverted ENFP. I was frustrated because she wouldn't open-up to me whole-heartedly or would just have silly banters with me. Incels/Red-Pillers prefer SOs who don't speak their mind and open-up. Why? So puzzling. Also, why would they call their SOs boring if they prefered the silent-type? Also, friend of a friend who was a psychologist said I was never an introvert because of my love of yapping and my ex was never an extrovert because she was stoic. It's not how talkative one is but the way one recharges, right? Love to hear ya'll thoughts and opinions.