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i honestly think mine was sometime in 8th grade when i realized that i didn’t just admire this guy, i wanted to go out with him.

i got jealous when he jokingly flirted with guys, but at the same time hoped that he was hinting that he was queer and not just joking around.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Honestly? Not until high school. I was always pretty hetero as far as I knew. I related to the other girls and when they talked about romance with guys, I could relate because I too liked guys and for a while, my crushes were only guys.

I met this really pretty girl and I thought I just wanted to be her friend until I realized I felt the same way about her as I did my guy crushes. Fortunately, she was a lesbian :)