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Do you have any rules you try to follow when engaging with others online? (sopuli.xyz)

submitted 1 day ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I'm curious what, if any, guidelines people self-impose to try and engage in a productive way online (both on Lemmy and elsewhere). "Netiquette" if you will.

A couple of rules that I think are good practices, but still see too often, are:

don't pile onto the most downvoted comment. Kinda like don't feed the trolls, but it's more about not letting yourself get rage baited. Instead, downvote them and move on.
don't give a non-answer to someone's question. Ex. if someone asks how to do X, don't answer with, "Why are you trying to do X? You shouldn't want to do X. Do Y instead." Instead, explain what it would take to do X, and then offer Y as a possible alternative and why it may be a better option. But assume they already know about Y, and it doesn't fit their use-case.

For that last one, finding a thread where someone has asked the exact question you want answered, only to find a thread full of upvoted non-answers is up there with the dreaded "nvm, I figured it out - 10y ago".

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I also follow this in offline interactions.

I'll engage if two of the three can be answered with a "yes".

1 - Is it kind?

2 - Is it true?

3 - Is it necessary?

For online-only conversations, assume that everything you say is public.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I wince when I hear people talk about putting everything on signal. It's like, you know if your using Google keyboard on Android, Apple devices, servers to transfer the data, and many others are listening in.