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I would but I just don't understand if he'd be interested at all..
And I'm sucking at life for now, so no maybe I wouldn't haha
You don't need to understand before you ask. That's why you ask. To find out.
When I was younger I used to waste a lot of time thinking and wondering about people instead of just making moves. And so I didn't go out with people, I didn't get to do a lot of stuff.
Now I just ask people. Sometimes there's rejection, but that's okay. Sometimes there's success, too.
(Written from the perspective of a man. Women are often held to different standards, and some people may take offense to a woman acting independently. Personally, I think those people stink, and you probably don't want to be involved in someone who's going to be mad about you using your agency anyway.)