realmen

Post nut clarity makes you want to talk I guess, here's the comment you ignored. Thankfully, you demonstrated my point about these lists and their readers' self esteem:

Except these lists don't uplift men.

If you're a man and you do X, then X is a thing real men do.

Comparing what you do, as a man, to what other men do to check if "you're a real man" is an inherently insecure thing to do.

These kinds of lists seek to destroy men's self esteem. "You don't do Y? Then you're not a real man" is not helping anyone. It is a good way of finding men with low self esteem, or creating men with low self esteem so you can sell them things though.