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It's boon and bane. It does depend on where you're coming from. If you're not lonely to begin with, then it probably makes you lonelier bc you spend less time with meeting friends irl, but if you're already lonely anyway, it's a good way to get in contact with people.
Most of us are probably in between, so there are moments when technology makes you spend more time alone, but also moments when you make use of technology to get in touch with others.
The trick is to balance out the time spent with socializing irl vs. not doing so. You're missing out either if you don't take advantage of tech or โ the other extreme โ lose yourself in it.