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[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago (1 children)

A lot of psychoanalysts in the comments who can't seem to identify that this is just a joke, the last panel being the punchline

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (3 children)

What's the punchline? The guy was zoned out on the computer the last 25 years and wasn't aware of any relationship whatsoever? I still kinda don't get it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

It's observational humor about how some people are so afraid of committed relationships that they have to slowly work they way into it. Which is funny to watch from the outside, since it's clear to everyone else what is going on. Obviously if you haven't made such experience yourself or observed situations like that, that joke wont work for you.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

They've spent 25 years not acknowledging the relationship so it's a surprise to one when the other does. At least that's how I'm interpreting it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I don't get it either. Is this supposed to be cute? She seems like the worst and him, the enabler.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

The way I interpreted it, they’re both happy in the relationship, but both are telling eachother (but really themselves) that they aren’t going to commit, because they’re both afraid of becoming invested and subsequently hurt when it doesn’t pan out (likely due to bad past experiences). But they both act like this because they’re afraid of the other abandoning them. Eventually they’re together long enough that it has since become clear that neither of them are leaving and they’re both happy, so the last panel is them finally addressing that fact.

It’s a joke because 25 years is an absurd amount of time to come to that realization. In reality this couple would have figured this out after a few years. It’s exaggeration.

It’s “cute” because they’re both good, loyal people who love each other, but they were both on the defensive for a long time, which is an immature “toxic” behavior, but because they were both on the exact same page, they have grown out of that toxic behavior together.

The guy does kinda comes across like maybe he’s not sharing the same behavior because he’s a bit more nonchalant about it, but I think that’s the general idea.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

I can't argue with that.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

Calm down Freud, it's just a gentle comic!