No human being should go through such a nightmare. No matter the skin colour religion, ethnicity, etc. and this applies to Palestinians as well who are now going through hell.

And the whole fact that Israel is doing very little to alleviate their suffering doesn't bode well with their moral values. They pretend to be better than Hamas and then you read about all their war crimes and the immense suffering of the Palestinians and you start wondering if they are any better than Hamas.

For context

On 7 October, the Almog-Goldsteins had barricaded themselves in Yam’s bedroom, which served as the safe room of their home in the Kfar Aza kibbutz. Five hours later, five Hamas gunmen burst in and shot Nadav, 48, in the chest at point-blank range.

The family had to step over the talented triathlete’s body as the militants led them outside, where Yam fainted. Almog-Goldstein tried to wet her daughter’s face in the bathroom before going to check on her other children. When she returned a few seconds later, she saw that Yam, a soldier just two months from the end of her service, had been shot in the face.

“I remember there was a hole in her cheek and she was gasping her last breaths. There was an exit hole on the other side and her head was bleeding profusely,” Almog-Goldstein said through tears.

“With time this image becomes more and more blurred but every night, throughout this whole time, just before night-time, I try to force myself to remember that image, that scene. It was such a difficult thing that I was witnessing, that it’s a process of self-torture in a way for me not to ever forget that.”

Kinda crazy how people just show their biases like that.

I read the article and two of your three quotes are from before their captivity so I'm not sure what your point is. If anything a lot of their fears seem to have come from indiscriminate Israeli bombings.