if noise is your primary concern, don't pick exos or the WD DC HC series, they're data center/enterprise hard drives and those guys don't care about noisy drives or heat and they use crazy loud fans so you wouldn't hear the drives anyway.
your 12tb is 5400rpm, when you go bigger they start using 7200rpm drives and they're typically louder but not always. 5400rpm is usually quieter and cooler running.