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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Google search. I had no clue about multiple instances. Search lemmy on Google and first link was for lemmy.ml domain so that's how I am here.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I wanted an instance specifically for Australians... so I made one πŸ˜€

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Feddit.uk - I figure regionality has benefit in keeping loads more spread, plus it hosts some good communities and a cute name.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Because I'm a furry. obligatory OwO

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm into general instances and also a long time user of Fediverse, so I know 10-200 user instances work best. That's why I picked the first one with not too many and not too little users (the join-lemmy page only showed 50 new users when I registered, damn)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

The list of blocked instances made me switch from feddit.de to the current instance I'm using.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I joined the one hosted by my country's community. The community is really great.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

The one I use doesn't block other instances, although I probably will block the same instances and people that big instances already block, I want to be the one to make that choice and shape the content I see.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I've got accounts on 4 different instances just to see what things are like. Sometimes I want to see all sorts of posts, sometimes I want a feed of just LGBT-positive stuff, sometimes I just want to get off, different accounts on different instances for different things :)

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Well, I started my instance so it only makes sense that its also my home!

As for why I started an instance, I've always liked self-hosting stuff as its been one of the best ways I learn how stuff on the internet works, even more than I have learnt from doing some programming in my spare time. So it was an obvious move for me since I wanted to know more about how ActivityPub worked.

Originally I wasn't really planning on having open registration on my instance (otherwise I would've picked a better domain name, a bit late for that now) however as I saw Lemmy pick up pace, and the larger servers were starting to have issues, I figured that the best way I could give back was at least offer to share the load.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I run my own private instance so I am in control over my own data.

Tbh, I don’t think it matters what server you choose. Lemmy.world, Lemmy.ml, and Beehaw seem to be the big ones so picking a server that federates with those would be ideal.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Was initially on lemmy.zip because it seemed really chill and that was such a cool instance name. I had no problems with it whatsoever but I realised it didn't block out certain instances that I disliked (aka lemmygrad). Now I'm on lemmy.fmhy.ml and I'm loving it so far since it had everything I needed:

  1. Blocks out lemmygrad
  2. Allows talk on piracy and NSFW content
  3. Loads better compared to the more overpopulated instances
  4. Wasn't very restrictive and was very welcoming (didn't even ask me for a reason for joining)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Literally just picked the biggest one to maximise the content I see

Rn it matters a bit, wont in a few weeks tho i think

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

For some reason I couldn't join lemmy.world and few other popular instances, be it because of technical issues, load, idk. I joined sh.itjust.works because I wanted to check fediverse before I commit to host my own instance, which I probably will at some point.

[–] gaydarless 2 points 2 years ago

Lemmy.ca felt like a natural home as an IRL Canadian resident. I like the variety of content and the moderation seems good so far.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I tried to find a server that isn't blocking anyone, and hasn't been defederated by any of the big servers.

I want to avoid an echo-chamber and have access to everything on the fediverse, including stuff I find distateful. If anything really bothers me I will block the community/instance myself, I don't want others making that choice for me.

Unfortunately there seems to be a lot of folks out there just searching for an excuse to clutch their pearls, rile up a mob, and defederate anything and everything that offends them.

I don't want to circlejerk in a safe space echo chamber, I want to see both the yin and the yang of humanity. I want that wild west feeling of the internet of old

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

I’m in Kansas City so I joined https://midwest.social πŸ˜„

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

lemmy.world because it was top recommended. In the future I might change to either host my own or use my wife's ex-husband's instance.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Is that a roundabout way of saying you're getting a divorce? Does she know?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Like most commenters here, because it was recommended and I'm a newbie at this.

Question though, if I create another account on say lemm.ee, is there a way for me to migrate my subscribed communities?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I signed up with lemmy.ml originally, but then it was a little hugged to death. I couldn't update my community, couldn't post pictures or anything and I kept getting errors.

I went through the list that was only like 10 servers or something at the time, found slrpnk.net which had the vibes of the subreddit I run and found a new home for NoLawns. The guy who runs it seems pretty cool when I had to reach out to him so I've made it my home.

I did also just make a kbin the other day to see what that's all about too but with no app (yet there's a few in the works), I've stuck here.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

On the day I signed up, 18.0 was rolling out and lemmy.one was the only one that worked on Jerboa. I wanted to try out the different apps and see what worked well so that was where I started. I also have an account on lemmy.world but I don't think it's necessary unless there's a problem with lemmy.one. might still use another server if I can create my own community there.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

My first account was on lemmy.one but then I stood up my own instance to learn more about Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Was the most upvoted comment on "how to get started with Lemmy". Also, some of these other places have super strange names, I get that it doesn't matter but when you know nothing it gives bad vibes.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Picked it for the name, stayed because of the community. A lot of super nice folks here on sh.itjust.works.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Trans, pan, 196, and Blahaj is friend.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Not seeing anyone mentioning lemmy.one and I'm starting to think I made a bad choice.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I signed up with beehaw first, but realized that they were defederated from lemmygrad, which I wanted access to. As I became more acquainted with lemmy and started looking into the "flavors" of the different instances, I joined lemmy.ml because they are unapologetic communists and won't defederate with lemmygrad.

As an aside, it's fucking insane to me that lemmygrad is so controversial yet there's crickets about exploding-heads and people are happy to be on instances that don't block them. Cool

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I have two. I have this one (lemmy.ml) as my broad-access instance. My other is lemmygrad, but as that is a bit more widely blocked I keep this one still. That one is used for most of my politics, and this one is my more general interest. It's kind of nice to have different communities died to different user registrations.

As to why those two in particular, I am a Marxist-Leninist so...yeah.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

It's the first one I found and many others were filled with germans and I said "Nein"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I saw people complaining that the admins were communists and I was like dope, I love those guys.

Plus healthy number of users (maybe too many actually) and local communities

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[–] esty 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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