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Am I the Asshole?

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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/sharkattacks29 on 2024-01-18 12:34:05+00:00.


Me (18F) and my friends (18F, 18M, 18NB) have been friends for well over 10 years. During this time our get togethers, most of, if not all of them, include everyone. If some date/time doesnt work for one of us, we change it so everyone can be included, since there are only 4 of us.

Earlier this week they decided to meet up today (thursday, a school day). None of them have school the next day, while i do. I should note that one of them does not go to school, and the other two have a very easy school program compared to what i do, they barely work and stay at home most of the time. I, however, go to school every day, my days end later than theirs and i cant skip classes. They decided to meet up at 1pm when i could probably get there at 3:30. They invited me as well, but i told them its inconvenient for me, as i would get there so late that they would probably want to leave soon, and that i was hurt and upset by the fact that they did not consider my circumstances in this situation.

This ended in a fight between me and the three of them, who think that its not that big of a deal, but im mad at them because i feel left out. Am i making a big deal out of nothing?

UPDATE: I read the comments and apologized. They accepted my apology and im omw to head over now, as its not too late yet :) Thank you all for the feedback

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