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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/ndude60 on 2024-01-23 07:00:20+00:00.
My friend and I had this long-standing tradition of going out for drinks and watching UFC at his place. My friends girlfriend always joined us for drinks and then went home because she was tired.
Things got complicated when his girlfriend, who isn't into UFC, started wanting to join us and tell him to send us home and go to bed with her.
The real issue arose when he started inviting his friends over for UFC nights at his place, and asked his girlfriend if it was ok, and she would say it was ok, but would change her mind at the last minute, causing a lot of tension for everyone who was there. This became a regular occurrence, and even though we accepted it, it created frustration.
The tipping point happened during her birthday celebration when my friend invited me to come and watch UFC. Despite her telling me it was ok and she wanted to go home. She later accused me of ruining her birthday because I went to my friends house after being invited and being told by her it was fine. She started an argument with me and I argued back that I had offered to go home multiple times in the taxi, but didn’t because she insisted it was fine for me to join.
It escalated with her blaming me for the situation, and my friend ultimately sided with her, leading to me being kicked out.
I feel like I didn’t try to do anything wrong and offered multiple solutions to the problem that she ignored.
I haven’t spoke to either of them since. And fear losing the friendship entirely.