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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/Spiritual_Issue_2179 on 2024-01-23 07:15:49+00:00.
Honestly, I don't understand what's going on, and I need at least some help from the outside, lol. Maybe it would be better to post it on a relationship_advice, but I'm not sure because I'M LITERALLY CONFUSED.
There's not even anything to tell. My girlfriend (F23), Anya, is a lesbian, and I am (F25) bisexual. We've been in a relationship for about two years. Before we started dating, I was married to a man, and I have a little daughter. Anya... Well, I love her, but if you look at the truth, she is often infantile and moody, like a child, when she does not get what she wants. She knows I think so.
Yesterday I accidentally told Anya that I started watching a show that we used to jokingly hate together. She laughed and asked why, and I replied that "I saw a gif on Twitter with an actor from this show and suddenly I had a crush" I thought it was normal, we often threw photos of actresses/female singers to each other and joked about how hot they were, or just discussed different celebrities.
Well, this time Anya became hysterical almost instantly, and she cried the whole night. She said that (I quote) she "hates my fucking Twitter and my fucking show," and that if I was "still attracted to men," then I would leave her "as soon as I got a new dick." She also demanded that I introduce her to my parents, "because she was tired of dating a woman she didn't know anything about." I did not introduce her to her parents, because I grew up in a toxic family and long ago cut off communication with all relatives except my brother.
Let me remind you, all this happened because I said THAT I LIKED AN ACTOR FROM A TEEN DRAMA, whom I will never even see. I do not know, I am completely at a loss and I do not even know who to turn to for advice, because this situation is kind of surreal. Maybe I really said something wrong and I don't understand it?