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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/No_Jellyfish1556 on 2024-01-23 15:04:28+00:00.
My friend, Chris and I have known each other since middle school. We became very close in high school. We are 25 now. He has only had one short term relationship years and years ago. And has been unsuccessful overall. Fast forward to almost 2 years now, he has a girlfriend who I can’t stand frankly.
He met her off tinder, and at first all of us were so happy for him. Since he spent years chasing after me when I told him, I didn’t like him that way, but he insists that I gave him mixed messages. For a while, I thought it was just a crush. But I guess it was more than that as he used to send me love letters and wanted to listen to my problems and help me out with everything. Maybe the lines could have been blurry idk.
From the first time I met her, I’ve tried to be nothing but nice to her. But there was just this weird energy about her. I guess the first thing that threw me off is the fact that she’s not super outgoing like all of us. Every time he brings her around, she won’t hang around the girls of the group during concerts. And only hangs by him like a lost puppy. She doesn’t ask about us, or wanna get to know us and only talks to people who talk to her first.
I guess after she found out about him being obsessed with me, she has an issue with me. She doesn’t talk to me, hang out with me, and just really acts shady. Like they’ve been together all this time, we don’t know anything about her.
Overtime, Chris began to get more and more distant with me. Until I asked him what the problem was. He told me that I wasn’t good for him, I broke his heart, and his girlfriend is the most important person in his life now.
A few weeks later, I see them at a show, and I go up to his girlfriend when Chris is in a different part of the building. I told her that she makes everybody in the group uncomfortable, I don’t want Chris, and just pretty much everything I said here. Trying to squash the beef. She wasn’t having it and told me she wasn’t being disrespectful she was “just existing” and walked away.
He texted me the next day after she told him, and he was so mad at me for saying that. But she blew it all out of proportion.