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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/PANdemonium_person on 2024-01-23 21:34:58+00:00.
I (18F) and my roommate (18F) share a triple dorm room (the third roommate dropped out before we moved in) It’s not a big room, but we aren’t cramped either. We both have our own areas in the room and sleep in separate beds.
Recently my roommate has been bringing their boyfriend (18-ish M) in our room. Not for anything dirty (from what I’ve seen) but he’s been sleeping in our room for over a week now. I know he has his own room because it is right across the hall from us. I’m not entirely sure of what to do because every time I try to bring something up she says “Oh, it’s not like we’re doing anything dirty.”. She once even brought him over when she and I both had 8AM tests the next day.
I feel bad for being uncomfortable, her boyfriend seems like a nice person, but now I can’t get changed in the morning because he’s always there. They have done nothing malicious but I still feel annoyed every time he comes over.
My roommate seems to notice my discomfort because she bought me yarn twice already (I’m a big fan of crochet). On one hand, I feel like it’s a bribe and on the other I feel like I’m taking advantage of her.
Today I had to meet someone in the morning and almost didn’t make it because the shower I usually changed in was occupied.
I feel like a total bitch because, again, they’re nice people. My friends tell me to talk to her about it but I’m wondering if I should just suck it up and deal with it.