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Am I the Asshole?

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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/FitImpress6726 on 2024-01-23 21:35:18+00:00.


Me (34) My wife Kay (32) met my sister Sarah (25) and her new boyfriend (we have never met him before) for an early dinner. Afterward, my wife and I went to listen to live music at a nightclub.

My wife wore a leather miniskirt, tee, jacket, and solid tights and boots to the restaurant. It’s winter so the tights had those fuzzy lining underneath. So leggings.

My sister doesn’t talk much during dinner but texts me afterwards about my wife dressing like wh.re when meeting her new man. A crazy rant that I blocked her and enjoyed my night.

The argument continued with my mom because my sister called her about my wife’s skirt. If you need a reminder of our ages please see the above paragraph. I laughed at my mom and my mom said it was “kinda disrespectful” of my wife to wear a mini skirt and she could see where my sister was upset.

My mom told me next time I should just tell my wife to wear pants or something around my sister. I told my mom I’m 100% not telling a 30+ old woman how to dress and my sister needs to stop thinking she can make crazy demands of people.

My mom accused my wife of seeking attention and I said what about my sister calling you to tattle on people. My mom called me an asshole for not seeing my sister's point of view on this. I also have not unblocked my sister from my phone and my mom insists that I should in case of an emergency. I said I would unblock her when she acts like an adult. Now my mom and sister aren’t speaking to me over the mini skirt that I didn't even wear.

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