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Am I the Asshole?

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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/badgerdouglas on 2024-01-24 04:54:55+00:00.


Our master bathroom does not have a door. The toilet room has a door but the shower and vanity can be seen from certain spots in the bedroom. While my partner was downstairs, I closed the door to take a private moment to check out an area of my body by the in the bathroom area. I heard our bedroom door open and before he walked into view of me I shouted, “Please give me 5 minutes of privacy!”

He said “okay, let me grab my laptop.” He then proceeded to walk into clear view of me, looked over at me, grabbed the laptop, and left the room. When I confronted him about it, he had no clue why it was wrong and said he gave me privacy after he grabbed his laptop and that I should have asked for privacy before needing it or been more clear with what I needed when he walked in. To me, my ask seemed pretty clear.

AITA for bringing it up? Is there a way I could have asked clearer?

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