Asklemmy

This is why constructive criticism is important. Though we should be ourselves what others think can be somewhat important in adjusting how we display ourselves.

I've been told I seem arrogant in the past. I always wanted to be perceived as the person who would help anyone whenever they needed it. A mentor opened my eyes with some tough talk and it has made me pay more attention to the little things I may do.

I have a similar experience...i was shy when younger and still so. You remind of a job i worked in my 20's, eventually i became friends with a coworker who told me: "I never thought we'd be cool - you seemed so snobby when you first arrived"

I'm truth, i was the exact opposite..i was shy. Unfortunately, i haven't learned or got the courage to change that.