this post was submitted on 05 Sep 2023
90 points (90.2% liked)

Asklemmy

46498 readers
1304 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy ๐Ÿ”

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

  1. Open-ended question
  2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
  3. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
  4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
  5. An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_[email protected]~

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
 

I thought either a wedding planner or marriage councellor, someone who's supposed to help you in your relationship. And obviously family members.

Feel free to mention personal experiences.

(page 2) 30 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Family member, or close friend is almost always the answer. Doubles the betrayal as it's now from two people.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Her family member or yours?

[โ€“] phoenixz 4 points 2 years ago

Your parent(s)

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago
[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Hopefully you didn't take my recommendation about personal experiences here.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Thankfully I did not

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Her friend that's a bonafied sex addict - who she knows has several STDS at any given time. Who she specifically asked me when we first started hanging out (not even the dating part) to not fuck around with.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Someone who's already cheating on a partner of their own. The relationship is likely to be a self fulfilling prophecy.

[โ€“] [email protected] -2 points 2 years ago

They'd have a hard time believing it if I cheated on them with my partner. It's so diabolical and unexpected that they'll never convince anybody I cheated on them with themself!

load more comments
view more: โ€น prev next โ€บ