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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Modern_Snow_White on 2023-09-24 19:41:46.
Today my brother (26f) vented to me (30f) about his colleagues. Apparently they were planning a trip with like 6 of them, but when it came to choosing a destination they had, what my brother called, "a weird fixation" on Thailand and the Philippines. After pushing why other countries were not an option, they told him that "they have beautiful ladies there".
My brother, finding it an odd reason, asked why they had to go all the way to Thailand for that, while Spain and Italy have gorgeous women too. They answered: "those women are useless, you can look but you can't touch. In Thailand women are nice to you, they serve you, you get a massage whenever you want and they don't discuss. They know how to behave".
He was totally disgusted by the realisation that they were planning a sex tourism trip. He said he doesn't feel like going anymore, to which his colleagues started about all the other "virtues" of Southeast-Asian women, and how "wortheless" Western women are. It basically boiled down to Western women being high maintenance and difficult.
My brother is a very principled person, so he stood his ground, and told them: "guess I'm just not desperate enough to treat women like vending machines" (refering to the money in- sex out concept).
I'm honestly proud of him that he stood his ground and told them they were pathetic. I know that it should be a normal thing, but in reality it's sadly enough not like that.