There's no contradiction or double standard here.
Love and hate are usually understood to include support/oppose in their meaning. It's cringey to say you "love" any nation, because they will never care for your wellbeing. It's especially unacceptable to support violent imperial states.
That doesn't preclude opposing or hating certain states, or having indifference to states that you don't feel strongly impacted by.
I think the title, opening sentence and paragraphs 1, 2, 3, 5, 6 & 8 all show that she's talking mostly about love in the sense of support and identify with.
Only paragraph 4 talks about the impossiblity of a personal connection with a nation and the next paragraph makes it clear that it's a side point.
It's an imprecise and out-of-place side point that I don't agree with, but it's not proof of her secret support of authoritarianism.