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What rights are being taken away here exactly? The vote is on keeping access to abortion. That does the opposite of take away rights. The minority is not gonna be forced into having abortions.

"unfair" doesn't mean shit in court. Either you were fired for a protected reason or you weren't. Being a Nazi is not a protected class.

If you want to replace them why would you not use a golden image? The same thing goes for VMs, not only containerized. You can sit there and wait for ansible to run, or just have your image come up immediately with what you need. It makes it take longer with 0 benefit.

Eyebuydirect is my go to also. I am very picky about glasses and they have better variety than most in person stores. And if you don't like them you can swap

My team onboards people remotely no problem. I'd argue it's better than trying to see what someone is doing over their shoulder.

I'm curious what the backend looks like based on your requirements here... Ansible is always a red flag for me that your servers are pets not cattle. Just maintain a golden image, especially since you mention kubernetes. And if you're using self managed kubernetes USE REMOTE ETCD. Trust me, it will save you so much time and drama.

I wouldn't be interested unless it's paid so I am just throwing that out there for y'all to consider.

Currently looking for another job and EVERY job I have seen that's hybrid has multiple offices across the country. So basically they make you come into the office to talk to the rest of your team on zoom. Somehow that is more efficient than talking to them on zoom from your house.

In addition to what @ScrivenerX said, this is also problematic because you seem to think women are aware someone is an abuser and then continue to date them. Abusers are incredibly manipulative and isolate their victims as much as possible over time so that they feel they can't realistically leave once they reveal their true selves.

Is it over? I mean, reddit definitely got what they wanted. Bootlicking power mods got control of more subreddits, bots are running rampant and pumping up the numbers, and the API change went through with a couple people willing to pay the exorbitant cost.

But the quality of content has dropped dramatically and I've seen a lot of people take notice. It's constant reposts, one popular post will hit like 5-10 subs at the same time. And it's mostly rate me shit and fake aita type posts. Reddit being boring will kill permanently, no protest needed.

Personally I wouldn't recommend bringing it up. Maybe her mom's anxiety has affected important points of her life before, and like you said she felt she needed to jump at the opportunity or risk missing out. She obviously wanted you there and was thinking of you because she called you during the experience to include you. It's a complicated situation, and you are right to feel disappointed you missed it, but it sounds like she was in a difficult situation and did what she could to make sure everyone important to her was includes in some way.

What would telling her you're hurt accomplish? What would she be apologizing for? For making sure her mom was there to pick out her dress? It's not her fault her mom has anxiety and she had to work around it. There was no perfect option in this situation. Her mom fucked up the plans and she did what she thought was best given the circumstances. I'm sure it wasn't the ideal situation for her either, no need to remind her of that. Plenty of other wedding related memories for y'all to make.

I wish I could get paid as much as a CEO to do nothing

Yeah because the only ammo they have for their side is made up bullshit