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[–] spider@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (10 children)

because its rude as hell to go into someones safe space and start acting like you know better or being dismissive of their beliefs. Especially when you dont actually want a well reasoned answer, you just want to stir shit.

You're running on a lot of assumptions.

I made a comment that had nothing to do with any of that. It received quite a few upvotes (10+), then someone misread it and accused me of antisemitic dog whistling, which was not the case. In other words, they were stirring up shit and making a bad-faith argument.

So I clarified my position, then other users piled on, the mod(s) deleted my comments, and I left.

And the user who made that accusation had made what could be perceived as an anti-Italian remark in a comment a few days before. My paternal grandparents were Italian. Needless to say, I was a bit upset that this person didn't follow the very strict standards that they held me to.

(By the way, Blahaj is also an LGBTQ+ safe space. The difference is, they're not assholes.)

Feel free to check my post history here; stirring up shit is not my style.

In the meantime, I'll leave you with some recommended reading, here and here.

[–] spider@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (15 children)

Speaking of which, I was in a discussion about that yesterday:

I specifically avoid .ml and .world because the collective behavior (i.e., hostility, downvote trolling, etc.) is so much like Reddit.

Beehaw, Hexbear and Blahaj have all disabled downvotes, but Blahaj is the only one that's decent, which is why I'm here.

(I would link directly to these if I could, but am having issues with that.)

For what it's worth, Discuit is also a generally friendly place.

[–] spider@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 month ago

I get your point, but she's referring to a critical mass of people.

[–] spider@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 month ago (3 children)

No, but she does advocate directly contacting Republicans to vent your anger and frustration at them, vs. scapegoating Democrats, since they have less control at the moment over what might happen.

[–] spider@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago

This is similar in appearance to the one I posted a few weeks ago -- both are Chicago Surface Lines streetcars, but this one was built by Pullman.

details here

video footage here (YouTube short)

[–] spider@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

Speaking of which, if you've got an hour, have a look at this:

Heather Cox Richardson -- Politics Chat: January 14, 2025

She puts a lot of emphasis on the fighting back part, with ideas as to how.

[–] spider@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I specifically avoid .ml and .world because the collective behavior (i.e., hostility, downvote trolling, etc.) is so much like Reddit.

Beehaw, Hexbear and Blahaj have all disabled downvotes, but Blahaj is the only one that's decent, which is why I'm here.

[–] spider@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

plus I wonder just how capricious they are

very

For example, I once referred to a bigoted minister as a "moron" and was accused of using "ableist" language.

After two more similar incidents there, I bailed.

[–] spider@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (6 children)

I specifically avoid Beehaw, Hexbear and World for that reason.

[–] spider@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 month ago (8 children)

the original "landed gentry" himself

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Communion rule (www.youtube.com)
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"When you elect a president of one party, often, states of the party that oppose that president have enormous ability to try to block or push back on directions that the president might want to go, especially if Congress can't function or pass legislation," said Barry Rabe, a public policy professor at the University of Michigan's Ford School and a senior fellow at the Brookings Institution.

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