It's a YMMV thing. The fat, "ugly" ones of us don't post or do and don't get upvoted so we're not seen. If you don't start off as a twink don't expect to look like them. The rest of us look like heavyset women with PCOS.
I'll be having facial feminization surgery on my lower third of my face. Let me know if you have any questions or just want to chat.
Edit: I am now squirrel. 🥜
Oh, so sweet 🥰