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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Same. The crashing made me switch but Liftoff is working great!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Fair point, ty that is what is hard is hrt tends to be super specific per person, and then pcos is similar so was worried , but just finding good provider then sounds important

 

Hii I'm nonbinary but I do want to look more masc. But I recently found out I have PCOS (Its not 100% confirmed by my PCP still waiting to see gynecologist for more treatment + confirming for sure).

What I was wondering is does anyone else have experience doing T (I probably want to mircodose) with PCOS? I'm asking because I'm worried that now its not a possibility at all for me with how messed up my hormones have been and that once I get them stable doing T would mess with it all too much, and wanted to see if anyone has any ideas?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I think for sure my parents comes from some part of their strongly Christian upbringing or something like that. Where queer people are fine, but then also imagining also having your kid be queer is too much? Either way still doesn't make sense and has hurt my relationship significantly with them. Especially considering I plan on moving in with my girlfriend at some point

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

They were "supportive" but when it comes to actual support they avoid it. When I mentioned ace and aro they dismissed it saying I'll grow out of it. Been told my whole life we will love you whoever you love and whoever you are. I've had two relationships in secret :/ when I came out as non-binary it was forced and wasn't meant to happen. Don't remember what but they misgender me because "it's too hard" to switch between they/them at the house and she/her with extended family -_- as if I don't do that constantly. That and actively making fun of my name. They constantly talk about how queer rights matter but won't actually support their queer kid. I'm so ready to move out. It's bizarre I don't get it

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

Love the flexibility tbh. If I want to switch manufacturers my OS is the same Also much cheaper + I just love the app selection and the ability to put my own apps on here.

iOS is too restrictive for me and too expensive tbh. The ability to switch default apps is amazing. That said this is just for me tbh

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Caveot being the loading screens and loading mini games are very non-sensical. When will the devs patch this smh

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Ok ty, I'll let them know when I see it. Ty for bearing with me since sinny new to Lemmy :D

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

This seems dumb, but I am having the inverse issue on some communities. I can see undetermined languages fine, but English comments or posts aren't showing up for me even with both selected, any ideas from anyone. I had to have picked something wrong but I'm not sure

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Adding on I think something else is going on since I cannot see my own posts on my profile, but I can see my comments fine. I've tried resetting the languages and saving the settings to English and Undetermined, but still can't see it. If I log out or go to the link directly I can see it fine

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

This is really odd but I have both English and undetermined selected and saved but on some communities I can only see the English posts but not the undetermined ones when im logged in. Odd thing too is I get "undetermined_language_warning"

Am I doing something wrong or is it on the community?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

Its so frustrating finding out about a symptom I'm struggling with, and I try to look it up and its all aimed at kids. Even if its all targeted at kids, those kids will grow up and become adults, and still have the same issues and I don't understand why.

I think you're right with the whole grow out of it thing. It fundamentally won't for any of my ND stuff, I will just get better over time at managing, but its hard to do that when there's no support. It's like the phrase "stop making autism your whole personality", no I cannot do that because fundamentally it affects everything.

TLDR: I agree and I hate how resources are aimed at NTs despite the fact that we are autonomous adults, and even then kids need to feel like you understand and aren't just talking at them.

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Here's my boy (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

His name is Tux, I love him so much. 10/10 would recommend cats

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago

I think I might be wrong, but I personally say it blah ha. But I don't think this is how its meant to be said lol, like you said blo-hi is the one that I think? maybe is correct

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