yeah

Are you careful with guns?

Do you need to know that the gun is not loaded before treating it as such?

When your response is "if in doubt, ask a man you trust" and women have shit threat radars, "tickling". Those are not solutions.

I wasn't asking for solutions or emotional support.

Quick recap for you: "How can you tell which is which when they're all dressed as men?" And then you responded withpatronising incorrect victim blaming bullshit 👏👏👏 You're basically advocating the missing stair which is all kinda of fucked up. But also! Evidently men don't know which one of you are risk factors - many of you don't even see a risk.

It was a rhetorical question for reasons that you can't or won't understand.

and you're a trustworthy man?

yeah for serious "woah". I replied earlier up and I wish I hadn't bothered now.

The stranger danger for rape and murder may be less than the known perpetrator but that doesn't mean it's non existant - known perpetrator is way too fucking high. Male violence (against men and women) is fact not ideological propaganda.

https://www.unodc.org/documents/data-and-analysis/statistics/crime/UN_BriefFem_251121.pdf

I don't need to fix anything because I am not the problem. Historically, systemically and individually I am not the problem. I will continue to go about my life with my eyes wide open with risk assessment. I'm happy for you that you're safe but I'm sad that you don't seem able to listen to what all the women (and some men) in these comments are saying.

I'm certainly feeling disenheartened after all this. Idk why I thought lemmy could do better.

Do you have any women in your life with good judgment?

Fuck me. Victim blaming 101 here.

Yep. 60%. Only 5 out of 33 boroughs voted leave and they are peripheral.

Article lists a bunch of women voting in favour. Be interesting to see the gender breakdown of votes after.

That makes me sad for you. I hope you remain open to chance.