DIY Mental Health

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A support group and structured set of resources for people who are struggling to afford or otherwise access professional mental health therapies.

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This whole thing is a work in progress, appreciate your patience!

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welcome to diymentalhealth (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
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i started this space because i wanted something a little more structured than most online support groups and rooted in real-life coping tools—but still chill and decentralized. this isn’t therapy, and it’s not medical advice. it’s just a peer space to share specific skills that have helped, and maybe learn a few new ones along the way.

for context: i am a mental health professional, but i’m not your therapist. i’m not here in any official or clinical capacity—this is a volunteer project, a mutual aid effort to make skills more accessible. i’ve received a lot of therapy personally, and while I don't provide a lot of talk therapy at work, I've definitely seen what lack of access does to people, so I just wanted to give something back to the community.

My Current Plan

  • weekly-ish posts about one specific skill at a time, mostly drawn from DBT, CBT, WRAP, and similar approaches

  • if you want, you can respond with something that helped you, or drop a quick snippet from your diary card or mood tracker (like “i felt X and realized it was connected to Y”)

  • this isn’t a course or a step-by-step system. there is a suggested order on the wiki, if you want a place to start—but the whole point is that you get to set your own pace and focus on what’s most relevant to you

  • this isn’t a crisis space (see the wiki for how to find support if you’re in danger), and it’s not a replacement for therapy. but if you’re looking for practical tools, shared experiences, and mutual support—welcome.

a few other notes...

  • suggestions on how to make this space better are very welcome. when i do teach these kinds of skills professionally, it’s usually 1:1—so doing it asynchronously and in a community format is new to me.

  • i’m okay with tech stuff but still struggling with stuff like getting a bot working. probably going to just use a scheduler service for now. if you’re into that kind of thing and want to help, let me know.

  • i’m also building a resource archive of links (so that nothing is hosted here) so we can keep track of useful worksheets, videos, etc. if there’s a piece of media that helped you understand a skill, feel free to share it. i’ll try to link to it on the relevant wiki page. and if you ever find a broken link, dm me and i’ll fix it.

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thanks for being here.

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How are your moods and behaviors interacting lately? Some examples of things you could share that aren't a full diary card could be:

  • a connection you made ("I snap at people more when I'm tired")

  • a wordle-style mood breakdown 🟩🟥🟨⬜🟩🟨🟥 (white is a missed day)

  • how many days of the week you remembered to write everything down (3/7, 6/7)

No pressure—just whatever feels useful or interesting to you.

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This week we’re exploring Wise Mind, a DBT idea about holding two truths at once—balancing emotion and logic instead of picking sides. It’s about finding real understanding in the middle. The wiki page has lots of examples, including one that fits well with the values of this community:

“I am angry with you… and I will treat you with respect.”

It shows how you can hold strong feelings without losing kindness or boundaries. Check out the page and add your own dialectic statements if you want.

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submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

this week’s focus is mindfulness. it’s the foundation for a lot of other skills and helps you slow down and notice what’s happening before you react. This first time around I'm going to go through the whole module before moving on to distress tolerance, but after that I'll only repeat it for a week between each of the other modules.

Just to introduce the concept; if sitting still or being in your head is hard, try one of these short videos:

optional check-in:

  • something you tried this week

  • a pattern or connection you noticed

  • any resource that helped

no pressure to share. take what’s useful.