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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/BlondeBisexualBeauty on 2023-10-02 21:06:25.


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Me (30 F), my husband (30 M) and a M/F couple around the same age started to hang out together. (Both of us couples have been in long term monogamous relationships. Only my hubby and I have kinda dipped into ENM a tiny bit).

We got pretty into the alcohol and us girls showed our boobs a few times. Then the husband of the girl started saying that she has been bi curious for quite some time… She seemed to be really shy and a bit insecure about her body. But I really loved hers. My husband spoke up and said that I was Bi and had a few experiences. I said I was dtf if she was. We ended up in their bedroom with the lights off and had a great time. She even sexily/forcefully got on top of me and went down on me, even though she’s never done it before. The husbands were kicked out of the room because she was shy.

We slept over and the next day the couple and us had a conversation together about how exciting the night was before. The wife was not giving the vibe that she wanted to do it again in the morning (even though I expressed I was down). The way she was talking about it seemed like she was still attracted to me but idk. We kissed again because the guys asked us to and showed our boobs again. I made some bold sexual remarks.

Since then, the guys have texted and the husband said the girl on girl is cool. He said that she told him she wasn’t bi and he said, “yeah you kinda are” From personal experience, I get how hard it is to admit to yourself that you’re bi. Maybe it was just an experiment for her and she never wants to do it again? I really want this girl and I to be friends. Even if we don’t do anything sexual together again. Idk how to ask if she wants to again. I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it.

We invited them over to our house, but they took a rain check.

What should I text her? I really don’t want to make things weird or scare her away, but I want to communicate and be honest.

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/nhlwm on 2023-10-03 03:03:31.


My bf & I have been together for 4 years, tried all kinds of stuff, but not anal. We both really wanted to try it out, but were too freaked out. I was a complete virgin before him, he's had several partners, but never a "decent anal". I "gifted" it for his birthday around 2 weeks ago, we were both super drunk and it went super smoothly. Used condom, lube, there was no mess at all, I cleaned up thoroughly before. During the process, he was obviously super-enjoyng it. The morning after he told me he thought it was a dream when he woke up, and hugged me tightly, thanking me. Now, I've been hinting him almost every day since, even directly asking "don't you want the other way?" (during vaginal intercourse), and he's been like "yes, I love it", still, not proceeding to do it. At this point I think he didn't really like it? But I'm not sure how, since during the process he was definitely enjoying it. Any advice from the men of the reddit? Possible causes? We've been having sex as usual after the event - almost daily, vaginal, bj, etc.

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Ok_Boysenberry_9741 on 2023-10-02 21:50:33.


I hooked up with a guy last night. We went out to a bar/arcade and I ended up going back to his place. We had sex a few times. I slept over and he drove me home and we fooled around on the drive home.

We both said we have high sex drives also.

When I was getting out of his car he asked if I wanted to do this again soon and I agreed.

But I’ve been thinking about it all day, it was good for me but I was super nervous last night and feel like I didn’t show my.. skills.. completely.

Would it be TOO soon to ask if he wants to fuck again tonight? I wouldn’t sleep over because I have to go to work in the morning but I don’t want to be embarrassing and ask if guys wouldn’t like that

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/daenerysismahqueen on 2023-10-02 19:46:49.


Before anything else, pls don’t send me messages unrelated to my post.

Anyway, my boyfriend refuses to have sex with me before we sleep at night now because he said that he'd be too tired to work the next day. But today, he told me he's planning to work out at the gym in the morning before working. I asked him "wouldn't you be tired to work since you'll be working out before work?" He said no because he gets more tired getting off than working out. I don't really understand it. Is this the same for you men?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/sex-etiquette on 2023-10-02 22:20:16.


I’m not talking about an ongoing medical dysfunction, more like when a person is a bit too much in their head, or overly stressed, or tired, and randomly one night can’t get hard, or in the case of a lady, when she’s not getting very wet, or is struggling to cum.

In my mind, these incidents are all equivalent. It’s just the sexual organ failing to do the thing we want it to do during sex. Happens sometimes.

But in the case of a lady not getting wet or not being able to cum, we kind of wave it away or work around it (lube). But when a guy can’t get hard it’s always a bit more of a thing. Like either the lady needs to be assured that it’s not her. Or the guy needs to be assured that it’s okay. We see it as an emasculating thing. Like the guy failed.

No one ever talks about the lady failing at sex because on a given night she didn’t get wet or didn’t cum. So why is a guy not getting hard associated with a failure to perform, rather than a minor inconvenience?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/livelaughlovvee on 2023-10-02 18:20:33.


i (f21) told my boyfriend (m26) i bought a vibrating dildo and he got so mad and offended, saying am i a pussy to you??! am i not enough??, he told me he’s gonna throw it away when he gets home and that he won’t have a threesome w another dick. i don’t understand the big deal and why we can’t use it during sex, are your partners like this too?? or is it just mine

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/i-am-lucy-ricardo on 2023-10-02 17:52:34.


So I gave my very first BJ last night, overall for it being my first time it went pretty well. But I have realized I CANNOT swallow. I was planning on it, but once he started cumming in my mouth I gagged and had to pull away bc I could feel I was going to keep gagging. Has nothing to do with his hygiene, he's clean and it didn't taste bad, just salty which I know is normal. It was the texture that got me. The warm, gooey, sliminess. I don't want to try to swallow again bc I have a strong gag reflex so he'll be able to tell, and I don't want him to feel like I find him gross or something, plus it's not exactly sexy. It's totally involuntary, just a sensory thing. And heaven forbid I try really hard and burp or puke on him. Noooo thank you. If I'm able to stand it just being in my mouth, how do I spit? Running to the bathroom with a mouth full of semen doesn't seem very sexy. Or, right when he's about to cum, can I just finish him off the last few seconds with just my hand? Or is that going to reduce his pleasure? And where do I like...aim?? The cum? Sorry, I'm totally new to all this, he's my first boyfriend and literally my first kiss so I'm running on zero experience.

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Minute_Mousse_4473 on 2023-10-02 14:49:42.


All my life I (28 F) have masturbated to porn, comics and mind fantasies but never to a real person, be it celebrities or bf. I’ve tried but it never worked. But after I met this person, I can’t stop doing it. It works well with the thought of this particular person. What’s up with me?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Due-Fox-1087 on 2023-10-02 12:47:40.


Throw away account. We've been in a relationship for over 4 years, our relationship is fine, and our sex is fine, I'm just not in the mood as often as he is.

He wants oral sex a lot, and I almost always do it, and I'll even put porn on for him while I do it to try to make it more fun etc, I want him to be happy. I initiate also, but these days with how often he initiates, I don't get the opportunity as much.

However I'm rarely horny, I'd rather cuddle and watch a movie. But almost every movie we try to watch leads to him pushing my head down for a BJ again and I end up missing a good chunk of it.

I'm tired of being covered in saliva and tasting his fluids, it's gross, and it's usually after I've already bathed that he initiates this and my hair and skincare get messed up. I'm tired of hurting the back of my mouth and rubbing my lips raw and gagging. Even when I have wisdom tooth pain or allergies he still wants me to do it. He makes me do it before I leave the house too, or before he goes to work then I have to rush to fix his breakfast and lunch and if it's a little undercooked because I had literally 5 minutes he gets mad, and blames me for not making him cum faster. I used to love his penis but this is getting old.

He doesn't put nearly as much effort into pleasuring me as I do for him, so I'm starting to get resentful too, I feel better masturbating alone most days.

I've gotten him two fleshlights, which he hates ("they're too cold/loose", even though I bought a warmer and one was an expensive sucking fleshlight). I offer handjobs instead and he gets snarky and turns them down ("I can give myself a handjob better than you can"). I've asked if we can just masturbate to porn together but he thinks that's weird. Sometimes I'll switch to PIV riding him to finish the job, but he whines that I'm "trying to get it over with faster" (is it my job to act like a 24/7 sex doll? 'cause that's what it feels like). Oh, I also told him we can open our relationship on his side if he wants more sex, but he said he only wants it with me. I can't get a break.

He has a fragile ego so I'm not sure how to ask him to quit asking for blowjobs, he'd probably think I'm being a bitch. Usually when I communicate straightforwardly he gets an attitude and says "fine, we're never doing it again" and then we go back to normal the next day as if nothing was resolved 🤷‍♀️ please give me advice!

Edit: thanks for the comments! I'm going to stop replying for a little while ❤️

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/nicuRN_88 on 2023-10-02 14:43:14.


Married men who are satisfied with their sex life - how often do you jerk off and/or look at porn? How often do you and your partner have sex? I know there is a wide range here but looking for what’s average.

To add some context - my partner and I (both 35) are coming up on our 3 year anniversary and have sex 1-2 times per week. He watches porn/jerks off as part of his daily wake up routine, which I am always still asleep for. I am all for masturbation and porn, we all do it. But I’m having a hard time wrapping my head around that being a daily “routine”. As far as it affecting other areas of our life - there has been an uptick in sex where he can’t finish so I’m not sure if that’s related.

I believe no one has the right to police another persons body and what they do with it, but I feel like we’re teetering on it becoming an issue when we’re in the bedroom together. I don’t have hang ups on porn or masturbation in general, but it’s my opinion that daily porn/jerking off seems excessive. I also know there is a wide range of the “normal” spectrum, so what might seem excessive to me is actually totally normal and common.

I guess I’m just looking for advice on processing and accepting this. I know his porn usage has nothing to do with me or his attraction toward me. We had a long discussion last night and some of the things he said made me question if he’s actually being reasonable and putting things in a light I’ve not considered before, or if I’m being gaslit (I know, I hate that word too). We are starting counseling as soon as my new insurance kicks in, which was his idea, so I do think he’s hearing my concerns and willing to do what we need to do to get past this.

ETA: great comments, insight, and advice so far. I really appreciate this. For whomever is downvoting my replies, if you can explain why I genuinely would like to know.

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/kevi2020 on 2023-10-02 08:07:53.


Hi I’m 23 and I’ve been friends with this girl for more than 5 years I met her online on PlayStation and we met up in real life. She visited me and stayed in a hotel and we both went out to a few bars and had drinks. She was very flirty in person and I didn’t know what way to take it so I flirted back but I didn’t think anything of it as the night went on we were drinking even more we went back to her hotel. I said to her I was gonna sleep in the next room and she had told me to sleep in the bed with her. So I did at this stage I was exhausted and wanted to pass out I got into bed with her. I took my jeans off and t shirt and rolled over to the side of the bed to try and sleep and she said are you not gonna fuck me? At this stage is was confused I’ve known this girl for years and talked mostly every day I never felt that way towards her but ended up having sex with her and was the best sex I’ve had. We haven’t really talked since that but she had messaged me a few times about meeting up again.

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/A_lonely_genius on 2023-10-02 01:56:16.


I (18M) had a really weird experience with a girl (18F) the other night, and although it may have been a one time fluke Im unsure if my apporach is giving girls the wrong idea. Long story short I got this girl's social's after making out with her at a party, and after a week of snapping her I ask to come over to which she said yes. She suggests we go for a walk and talk for a bit, and it went well. But afterwards when we cuddled and watch a movie I asked to makeout, but then she blindsides me by saying "Im setting a boundary with you, we arent sleeping together." Obviously it's not a problem and I was respectful about it, but did the fact that I got her number after making out with her, and I asked to come over on a saturday night not give the right idea? Also I didn't wanna bluntly ask to come over and have sex because I didn't want her to think I was weird. But maybe that's not weird, idk.

I Just want some clarification on what I did wrong (or not), beyond the scope of "that sucks bro" which i got from my friends.

Edit; Typo, i asked to come over to her place and she said yes. Idk if this makes a difference

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/SpicyMackerel on 2023-10-02 05:47:58.


I had an ex that once told me he found me ugly for a few minutes after sex, and that’s kind of stuck with me years later. I understand men don’t really want to cuddle while women become super cuddly after sex so I try to give my current boyfriend space for a few minutes, but what my ex said clangs around in my head every time.

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Traditional-Air3784 on 2023-10-01 14:59:35.


I 18f have a boyfriend 18m

We’re both new to this and we’ve only had sex a few times. We where just chilling in his room and I ask to see him masturbate but do it pretending I’m not there, I was just curious what it looks like when he gets himself off. Told him not to cum tho because I’ll do that.

He went for like 10 seconds then said it felt a bit weird and didn’t want to continue. He said me just sitting at the end of the bed watching him do that felt really weird.

I don’t get it? Why isn’t he comfortable with that? All I got out of him was it feels “weird”

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Timetogo1998 on 2023-10-01 20:21:27.


As the title states, my BF is larger than average and when it’s been more than 2 or so days between us having sex it’s painful. It takes a few days of sex everyday for me to be able to fully enjoy sex without any pain, but once I’m adjusted and continue to have sex everyday, it’s amazing.

Life has gotten pretty hectic for us, so we’re only having sex 2-3 times a week and I don’t look forward to it as much knowing I’ve “reset” and it’s going to be painful. Any advice appreciated.

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Healthy-Indication12 on 2023-10-01 22:38:18.


My boyfriend made a comment that he shouldn’t have gone down on my when he was sick (with a regular head cold ) because it made him sicker - he said that “vaginas are filled with germs and bacteria”

He legitimately believes that vaginas are dirty and compared it to “licking a pole” and how he wouldn’t do that if he was sick.

I am super frustrated and cannot understand this point of view.

Any advice ?? Is this normal?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Hopeful_Reporter6731 on 2023-10-01 20:17:43.


Okay so I’ve been seeing this man since June. Sex with him is strange because he’s just not vocal. For example, when I give him head he’s not really vocal but his body language kind of helps me out. I can tell when he’s liking what I’m doing because his body tenses up, so I’ll do that until he cums. Then after he cums in my mouth (which I love) he stays hard but I have no idea if he’s enjoying it. He’ll put my head in a position to keep sucking him (thankfully) and then he comes again. I know sex is different with everybody and I’m trying to learn him, but it’s really hard because he’s not vocal at all!!

He told me the other day our sex is boring, and I agree mainly because he isn’t vocal, but I really want to figure this out. He said he wants to be fucked back but I can’t know how if he’s not giving me cues, or moving my hand places he wants them. I’m use to sex w a girl bc my last relationship was with a female for almost 2 years. I told him this and to bear with me as I haven’t had sex with a man in a long time. He said okay thats understandable. I know men are less vocal, but man does it make sex a little bit more tricky.

I want to please him and make him happy, but it’s hard when he’s not vocal. I don’t even want to talk dirty to him because I feel like he’s not going to verbally respond with moans at the least.

It’s just unfamiliar territory at this point. And to clarify, I’ve had sex with more men (only 2 women) but the women I’ve been in actual relationships with so the sex is more

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/RomanticSpirit888 on 2023-10-01 18:43:01.


Hey everyone!

So question out of curiousity... I'm 31F and a virgin (by choice). In my late 20's I felt like there was a healthy dip in my sex drive to where it felt "controlled" and fine imo. More relaxed, didn't feel the need to masturbate like I used to at all.

I thought it was going to stay that way, but suddenly I noticed in my early 30's right now this surge of libido. It's insane. Don't get me wrong, it's nothing too, too crazy but it's just this DEEP primal feeling of wanting to get bred all the time.

All the time, when I feel horny (and in heat), all I can think about is wanting a deep & loving primal intimacy with a man. I cannot help but think about wanting passionate inimate missionary sex. And or even having primal sex, wanting to get bent over by someone that desires me deeply and being taken from behind. Being put in my place. Having a man "calm me down" and giving into my horny & whimpering primal need to get bred, so to speak...

I have no plans on getting pregnant or anything lol, if anything I take these things very seriously (again, virgin by choice)...but my heart and body deeply desire a loving, passionate intimacy with a man.

The reason I'm making this post is because I don't understand if I'm crazy or if this is just my body's way of trying to signal to me that it wants a baby (?). I can just tell it's a mix of a deep primal desire with feelings of love. I think I was just very surprised with the surge of libido though, for some reason I thought it would have stayed melowed out by now lol.

Are there other ladies like me? What to do? Thank you!

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Icy_Use_6307 on 2023-10-01 16:19:21.


I thought they where a myth until the other day.

I 18f was going to school with my boyfriend in his car. He always parks in a place just outside the school grounds because the in school parking is terrible.

I like doing things like being playful and creating tension and excitement for when we are alone when we’re out. Saying things or playing with him through his pocket etc.

On the way there i mentioned giving him a blowjob in the car park, plays with him over his trousers until he got there, then took his dick out, sucked it a bit then said I’ll finish it after school. Because I’m not having cum in my mouth before school that’s just kinda weird lol.

After school he asked I not do something like that again, he made it clear not to feel like I can’t stop at any given time during anything we’re doing. But not to intentionally get him 3/4 of the way there then stop before having to wait 7 hours to finish.

He said it was “unpleasant” but he would downplay stuff not to make me feel bad, how bad is it really?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Novel_Cartoonist3236 on 2023-10-01 15:47:16.


I've (F22) recently come out of a 2-year relationship with the man I lost my virginity to (he was also a virgin).

I always told myself I wouldn't have random hookups/ONS, but recently changed my mind and decided to try it out as I am a very sexual person but I'm not ready for another serious relationship yet.

I met a man online (37M (I find the age gap hot)) who was very open and honest about how he just wanted casual sex. I told him I had never been in a situation like this so if we met up I woudn't be guaranteeing anything would happen.

We went out for drinks for a couple of hours and then went back to his place.

From what my friends have told me, and from everything I read online, I was expecting a hookup to just be a bit kissing and then PIV and then for him to try and get rid of me. People always make out that ONS are kinda awkward and that men are selfish, but hoolllly mollyyyy I ended up having the most passionate, intense sex ever, as if we've been dating for years...

He literally worshipped and caressed my entire body, dove straight into eating me out without me even saying anything and kept telling me how amazing I tasted. He wanted to eat my ass too but I told him no because I wasn't even expecting him to eat my pussy let alone ass lmao.

There was so much dirty talk which turned me on, but he also kept looking deep into my eyes telling how beautiful I was...

I can't even properly explain it... We just went so wild for eachother!

Afterwards, I was expecting the post-nut clarity to hit him and for him to try and get me to leave. But no, we just cuddled and I lay in his arms for hours and he continued to gently kiss all over my body. He also kept asking me to tell him everything I liked so he could do it all for me and he was desperate to make me cum (unfortunately I've never orgasmed from sex). We ended up having sex again that night.

I kept telling him I would get the bus back home because little ol' me didn't want to be an inconvenience, but he wouldn't allow it and he drove me home.

We have met up again since but I'm scared I'm going to get attached if this keeps happening haha.

Is this normal!?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/StruggleFun3270 on 2023-10-01 11:55:03.


My husband is selfish in bed. He gets off and doesn’t bother about me. I didn’t get orgasm in our first 5yrs of marriage and whenever I brought it up He argued that I was having orgasm but I didn’t know- I married a virgin…. One day, after his shoddy job, i did a ride on his legs and I got an orgasm- that was my very first orgasm because I felt it in my very core. Some days ago, he got off after his shoddy job and I practically begged him to finger me so that I could orgasm . He grudgingly did but in few minutes he slept off and I had to take his fingers from off my vjS. Coupled with a lot of things, Im having a strong feeling he’s not really into me. I don’t get hugs/nonsexual touchs, kisses, romance, dates, seductive stares, he doesn’t appreciate my looks/outfit, he finds it difficult to talk to me without the attention of his phone, he’s always in a hurry when I’m talking to him, he forgets practically everything I tell him - down to my schedule. We’ve been married for 8yrs but I’m so tired. Are my being childish and unrealistic ?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/iamlisa47 on 2023-10-01 12:48:53.


My husband [58] and I [47] recently concluded a 24 year long marriage a few months ago in an amicable fashion.

Abusive, manipulative, volatile and controlling are some of the words I could use to describe him towards the latter part of our relationship after a very rosy first 15 years of marriage.

Needless to say, I am living my best life post divorce. You take for granted the value of independence until you finally realize and feel what it used to be!

An old friend of mine took me out a couple nights and ever since then I've felt im back in my teenage years with my sex drive on full capacity. Not just that, my work and overall lifestyle and happiness is liberated through my freedom and independence.

I hope everyone who has been through what I have, found solace and happiness back in your life

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/mina11999 on 2023-10-01 12:25:32.


I was raped 5 years ago before I met my boyfriend. I have been with him for 2 month now , he's been so aggressive lately he kissed me so aggressively because he was overwhelmed with affection. He hugged me very tightly and he touched my body and I tried to push him away (affectionately) but he didn't stop he kissed me even harder. I started to panic for some reason and I pushed him as hard as I could. After which I told him that uncomfortable and he apologised. I don't know if that was his fault or not ,After what happened he kept asking why And he wants to have sex but I keep saying no and l'm so scared of him I don't know why! He is so nice but .. After that day, I have been having flashbacks of the time I was raped and I haven't been able to sleep and I've been having periodic panic attacks. I after the rape I never felt comfortable about sex I feel l'm the problem and he deserves to have it I'm sorry my English not good I tried my best

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Inevitable-Banana-44 on 2023-10-01 05:58:16.


I am 23(M) and I work the night shift on a hybrid schedule, which means I work on Friday evening, or essentially Saturday morning at 4:30 AM. Recently, I have been talking to one of my colleagues, and two weeks ago, we also made out in my car while I was dropping her off at her place. This happened in her society's parking lot. She also unzipped me saw my dick that time as she is experienced and had 1 boyfriend and 3 hookups in past. But nothing happened as she got a call from her mother and she got panic. Anyways, Moving to this Friday, the stars aligned, and we both went to the office. So, once again, I offered to drop her off at her place. She knew that i was interested in that thing again. We left the office and we were flirting all the time in the office as well. So, i was really horny and i guess super excited as well. She was great and we both were touchy while i was driving. I was rubbing her thighs and she was also doing the same. We reached her parking again and i jokingly told her to put her phone on silent and then we started making out. She was really great and I believe she was more horny than me. In 2-3 minutes, she unhooked my pants and grabbed my penis. I mean she was taking lead and i don't know her touching me and kissing me made me really excited. She took my penis out and i had a lot of precum on my penis(this was also little embarrassing tbh). She was already holding my penis and asked for my permission "shall i??" And she did something which was the most pleasurable thing ever. She licked the tip, spit on it and actually took it inside her mouth. I was okay till then but in next 20 seconds she took it real deep and gagged. Hearing her gag made me super horny and i came. It went inside her mouth a little bit as well. The embarrassing thing is i came in not more than 60 seconds and more embarrassing part was that as soon as i came she spit my semen outta her mouth, i gave her tissues and she gave me a dead stare. Before cumming i told her that i am cumming so that she can pull back but she kept going and I believe 50% was inside her mouth. So, after cleaning herself, she hugged me and left. I mean, I know i am a virgin but I believe cumming this soon is embarrassing. Can i do anything to improve this?? Also, She hasn't texted me yet after the night. Shall i call her?? I am too embarrassed to call her.

Edit : Thankyou for all the comments. Yes, i spoke with her and she told me that she actually loved the fact that i came super quickly. Infact i am the first guy who came with a BJ. The thing which disappointed her was my cumshot in her mouth. She said she had no problem in that also but we were in a car and she did not wanted any mess. She also invited me for a drive tonight and she jokingly told me that she loved my cum and this time i have her permission to finish in her mouth. So, Thankyou again!!

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Less_Advertising_487 on 2023-10-01 01:57:45.


So how many of you here were always no to anal or any sort of play until actually it felt super super nice when horny? My wife was always no to anything to do with anal now she actually really enjoys it super into getting her ass played with so we're just curious to see what other people's thoughts were...

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