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I'm not sure there's any other good reaction than the one you had.
Maybe he was just "checking you out" and being very untactful and impolite about it (i.e. he's just awkward).
Maybe he was looking at something else near you ... but probably not.
But also maybe, he's not right in the head and was thinking about doing more than just looking...
My advice (as a guy) is either:
I'm also going to add, that "look for help thing" includes looking for random guys that weren't creeping you out that might be walking by. I know there's the whole stranger danger thing that most of us were raised with, but ... most guys are not rapists. If you just look for a normal looking dude (or someone that really looks like they've got their shit together) and ask them... I'd say 9/10 they'd be more than happy to get you out of that situation.
We need to (as a society) normalize women letting guys know about problematic men.
A bit of a weird but I think true add-on to this in 2024: look for the one dude (or lady) with arms full of ink (tattoos). A person who spends countless hours in a chair and thousands of dollars on their work is highly recognizable and identifiable, things a would-be creeper does not want. Even if maybe their work looks a little gang or biker, people know who they are and are not the scary ones in this park at this moment. $0.02
I would phrase that as "don't count out people with tattoos." There are definitely some people with tattoos that you still don't want to talk to (100% agree in 2024 though, tattoos themselves do not mean someone's a bad person and some of those folks are lovely) haha