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The issue with your counter example is that there's plenty of times a teacher might use the word terrorist in a classroom. Any history lesson covering the past half century for example. There are precious few times a teacher should be actively swearing in a classroom, in any context.
But if it's a power dynamic thing, I'd be equally fine saying "I don't negotiate with terrorists" to a subordinate at work if they were being a particular kind of dick, same as I would with a buddy. Because it's a normal phrase people say.
I would like you to find one other example of a teacher saying that to a student. Go for it.
I'll do that as soon as you find me one example of a teacher saying "hey there buster brown, why don't you sit down!”
You probably can't, because it's not news worthy, as this wouldn't be 99.9% of the time. The only reason this is, is because the kid in question was one, Arab, and two, offended. If either hadn't been true, none of us would have ever heard about it.
But I recall people using that phrase in highschool. I remember teachers using it. That was back in the Bush era, to be fair, but it was pretty normative. We didn't really have any Arab population, so not much chance of anyone being offended though.
That is totally different and you know it.
I really, genuinely don't. You may not believe it, but those feel equally charged to me.
But I think that's at the crux of our disagreement. My lived experience is that that phrase is uncharged, and your lived experience is that it's terribly charged. This is probably due to regional or cultural differences, and honestly, that's fine.
We could debate who's lived experience is the more generalized one. Who is more representative of the average American. But honestly, I don't know that it matters.
And even if you found out that 95% of people think it's uncharged (which I'm not saying is the case), it still wouldn't make it feel any different for you I'm sure, as again, in your lived experience that phrase is tantamount to a slur.
But all that said, I appreciate the discussion about it. It's always interesting to come across these things that, due to fluctuations in region or age or whatever, both seem so obviously true to each side, while being so polarizing.
And I know I see you around here a lot, and I generally agree with you on stuff. So like, I know you're not an unreasonable person or whatever. I respect your opinion on the issue even. We just disagree this time.