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On the quiz, I got 84% NDP as my highest, followed by Green.
I personally can't stand purity testing and I see it frequently on Lemmy, and it nearly drove me from the platform when I first joined. One of the first threads I saw was (with no exaggeration) the single most insane purity test ask I'd ever seen up until that point. The thread consisted of "Come in here, tell me I'm right in exceptionally glowing terms, and tell me I will always be right. I will block and ban anyone from the instance if they write anything else or I get the feeling they are being sarcastic or not effusive enough in their praise."
I feel it is exceedingly harmful and drowns out better ideas while driving off potential allies.
I feel it happens more frequently online and in left-leaning spaces.
I'd argue it happens just as much in right wing spaces. People with soap boxes want to make sure nobody listening to them will rebuke them.
It's small people in big spaces. People want to feel secure and reassured in their feelings. Presently, it may seem as though left leaning spaces use these purity tests more frequently but I would argue that's the result of under-representation in modern politics.
Many left leaning folks have to vehemently defend the feelings they hold in their hearts. Meanwhile right wing folks get to say "I feel what I feel! You know in your hearts it's the moral thing to do! Anyone who opposes is immoral"
So, you end up with a lot of leftists who have to carve out safer spaces for conversation. I think, because the societal default opinion for leftists is that they hold immoral stances. ie: socialists, communists, anarchists. They seem evil to outsiders.
I dunno about it happening just as much on the right. I'm in Alberta and (for events only) still have to use Facebook, so I unfortunately see a lot of right-wing content. The overwhelming majority complain about left-wingers in broad sweeps, not people slightly less right-wing than them. The right wing is far more cohesive in my experience, which is one of the things that make them more dangerous. Their votes primarily mean "fuck the other side" in a way that left-wing votes do not.
Most of the insular leftist communities here on Lemmy also claim the moral high ground, but will ban light dissent. From FuckCars, 196, lemmy.ml, to some Vegan communities they all feel that they have the moral high ground and will spew bile at anyone with the audacity to agree with them, but in the wrong way. Their votes often mean "fuck EVERY other side except my small sliver of the left."
Right, but now go say some lightly left leaning things in one of those communities and watch the vitriol roll in.
Like I said, little people, big internet.