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You've never met someone whose personality you find off-putting, but whose physicality you find super attractive? If the two of you had sex, you could be rougher and more sexually self-serving than you would be with someone you love, since you don't really care about the person's thoughts or feelings. The two of you can both release some of your hate for each other by incorporating mild aggression into the act.
This is so delicately put
Haha thnx, that was my intent. I chose my wording carefully!
Restraint is sexy
Maybe its like in Weeds