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What do you do when you get ghosted? (lemmy.ml)
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In a romantic relationship or otherwise. I'm being ghosted over a job, so I ask randos on the internet about what they do. WBY?

Edit: Thanks everyone for the advice I've been trying to follow. It helps having it reinforced. It's just hard for several reasons any of which would make it my top choice.

  1. It's in the city my sister lives in. I haven't lived near my family since I finished high school
  2. My job is inherently transient; I move every 1-2 years. This one gave me some permanency
  3. I've been doing the same thing for the last 10 years. This one gives me additional responsibilities
  4. It's prestigious and would come with higher pay

I'll be working on it, but like I said it's tough. It's almost like the universe gave me the perfect go fuck yourself.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Move on, get your mind off of it by doing something new and wild (bungee?) or something familiar that never involved that person