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I agree, just wondered what "more often than not" meant.
I think more often than not people default to monogamy because that is the only moral framework in which our society generally finds intimate relationships acceptable. As a result of monogamy's monopoly on intimate relationship structures, possessiveness and extreme jealousy in response to threats of non-monogamy are normalized and are almost considered a virtue depending on the context.
I get what you're saying. I don't know about the last part, ”normalized" is a spectrum unto itself. "Unsurprising", for sure. And I took your original statement to really mean there are people with unhealthy jealousy/possessive traits hiding within the framework of monogamy.
Carry on friend, just wanted to ask a few questions to make sure I understood what you were saying.