this post was submitted on 01 Jul 2025
173 points (99.4% liked)

WomensStuff

375 readers
295 users here now

Women only trans inclusive This is an inclusive community for all things women. Whether you're here for make up tips, feminism or just friendly chit chat, we've got you covered.

Rules…

  1. Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them.
  2. Don’t be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
  3. Don’t hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever.
  4. No governmental politics, so no talk of Trump actions etc. We recommend [email protected] for that, but here is an escape from it.
  5. New accounts or users with few comments may have their posts removed to prevent spam and bad-faith participation.

founded 3 months ago
MODERATORS
[email protected]
[email protected]
[email protected]
[email protected]
[email protected]
173
Does your body count bother you? Any regrets re sexual partners? (piefed.cdn.blahaj.zone)
submitted 4 days ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
24 comments fedilink hide all child comments
 
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Everyone with more than 1 sexual partner has regrets (bad match, poor decision, etc) and even the people who only have had 1 sexual partner have regrets (wishing that they explored more, found better, etc).

So there is no winning, only acceptance of who you are, what you choose to do and the refusal to let others to fit us into neat little boxes.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I disagree everyone with more than 1 sex partner has regrets.

I actually have zero regrets from sleeping with anyone. I regret giving one man my phone number. But I don't regret any of my casual encounters.

Happily married now with a family. Still no regrets.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

I have way more than one sexual partner and I don't have any regrets, not of the choice of partners or the sex. My regrets are from relationships that didn't pan out.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

Hi, I've only had one sexual partner. Very much regretted it after she decided she was too horny to care about consent one night. Wish that wasn't my only sexual experience, but it is what it is.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Only ever been with one and have no regrets. 17 years. When you click, you click.