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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 45 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

What's the other CNC? Command 'n' Conquer? πŸ€”

Edit: Also would add PnP to this list. As a techie, I immediately think of Plug'n'Play. But it has an entirely different meaning on dating apps/personal ads.

[–] Maddie@sh.itjust.works 46 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Deceptichum@kbin.social 19 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Is that a joke or are people actually saying this?

[–] crawley@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It's a consensual rape fantasy kink. It was actually featured in an episode of House.

[–] Maddie@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No consensual non-consent is a real thing, it's a specific kind of sex roleplay

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I guess "rape play" was a bit too forward

[–] Maddie@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago

People still use that term too, but the R-word can be a bit triggering to a lot of people, I think it helps to have a different term to call it that emphasizes that it really is consensual even though the fantasy you're playing out is that it isn't

[–] Draedron@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago

Saying rapeplay is also a thing. But CNC is usually broader

[–] CADmonkey@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

It's a real thing. If you have a very trustworthy partner it can be a lot of fun, from either perspective.

it's a common term on fetlife, yes

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Command and Control in the infosec world.

The servers that control botnets.

last i checked those were just called C2

[–] SuddenlyBlowGreen@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What's the other meaning of PnP?

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

Party 'n' Play. It's code for sex while on meth (and possibly other drugs; here it's meth)

[–] BigDanishGuy@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Makes me sad, my hardware is too old to be PnP-compatible

[–] Obi@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 year ago

You'd be surprised, the toll gets higher and the risks are greater but that definitely doesn't stop everyone regardless of age.

Huh.

I guess that makes it obvious which PnP I'm more familiar with...

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago

Everywhere I’ve heard it used, it’s specifically meth!

[–] Aecosthedark@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Thats a new one to me. Would scotch and weed count?

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 1 points 1 year ago

I think that's just referred to as a "good time."