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I think I'm cis but I'm questioning my gender kinda, need advice (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 years ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I am very comftable with he/him pronouns. Always was but recently I noticed that while I don't go out of my way to use them I'm also fine with they/them pronouns being used on me.

It could be a phase but I'm not sure. It could also be that I tend to use they/them as an alternative in. I'm confused

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I can remember a similar circumstance and I remember it well, if it means anything to you, I wish my father was more like you.

Maybe I wouldn't have had such a rough time with a better role model. Maybe my father would have done better too but that's food my for my thoughts.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Can't really say if I would have made a good father or not, unfortunately it wasn't in the cards for me. My own father had no idea what to do, and that was even before it was obvious that I was different from other kids. He did the make the right call though, if he wasn't sure then he just me be myself. Although I'm not sure how he would have handled things if I had discovered crossdressing at a much younger age.