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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 years ago (3 children)

It always grosses me out when someone calls a woman 'mommy' in a sexual way and it's been pretty common lately. It's no less creepy than women calling men 'daddy'.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I mean, think of it this way. I'm into BDSM. However, I'm not into being absolutely nothing in the dynamic. Calling my partner master owner or mistress feels weird. I just want a more powerful term for her where the power dynamic isn't completely removed from anything loving.

Her: "Have you been a good sub for me today?"

People who don't say mommy: "Yes CEO, I got that quarterly report finished for you."

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Dominate me, General Secretary of the Secretariat of the Central Committee of the Communist Party!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

It's all about consent. I'm into it, but it always makes me uncomfortable when I see people say it to strangers online