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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/Otherwise_Moment_811 on 2024-01-19 03:37:09+00:00.
So long story short my best friend since 11th grade (21f)and I (21f) had a falling out. I thought it was respectful and mutual decision but I was wrong a few months ago I noticed she blocked me on tik tok So I sent her a long heartfelt message about my feelings towards her and how we’re at different points in life I just started a family I have a 1 year old daughter with my boyfriend and he has a 4 and 5 year old as well so I basically went from having no kids to having three and being a stay at home mom. My ex bsf has always been in a lot of drama since I met her and I unfortunately was the one who always stood up for her and fought her fights (wrong yes I now know) she’s always been in some kind of drama and it was exhausting she would FaceTime me for hours and I feel bad for saying it but all she would do was complain about her family and her problems I tried to be a good friend but after I had my baby I didn’t have much time for that I lived close to her so she would come over all the time and we would hang out basically all the time at this point in time she was still in a lot of drama 24/7 but I told her that I had a baby and I couldn’t be involved with that kind of stuff now. Fast-forward to this past summer it was her 21st birthday I had already let her know that I wasn’t sure if I was gonna be able to come or not because it was on a Monday night And I probably wouldn’t be able to find anyone to watch my daughter( I could’ve asked my boyfriend her dad but he gets up for work at 5:30 in the morning and at this time I was breast-feeding and she was a very colicky baby so it wasn’t easy) I didn’t get to go after that we didn’t really talk too much just here and there every so often and then a few months later out of nowhere I noticed she had blocked me on TikTok and I was just kinda over the friendship so I took her off of all my other social media But today, a mutual friend of ours shared with me that she had posted a video that’s private to where only her friends on TikTok, can see it basically exposing lost of my secrets, that I’ve told her 100% in confidence as well as some other lies, accusing me of using drugs, and using her when she was the one who would come over to my house because she was in so much drama that people were looking for her around her apartment, because they wanted to fight her, but backtracking a little bit Sorry she had posted that video before I sent her that long heartfelt message about how I really felt and how I think we’re just at different points in life I had unblocked her on iMessage and completely went off I said some hurtful things, but nothing compares to what she posted for everyone Who’s on her TikTok to see and she will not respond to me at all. I’m not really sure why I’m posting this here. I guess I just want some outside input I honestly feel heartbroken. I think this is worse than a break up. Also, regarding to how I started this post, it’s a lot longer than I thought it was going to be.