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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/Zealousideal-Tax6301 on 2024-01-19 03:59:30+00:00.
AITA female 22 for leaving my fiancé male 26. In the beginning of our relationship for the first year and a glad everything was perfect. We would cook together clean together and we were genuinely happy. But soon after moving in together after he proposed things quickly changed. The entire 2 1/2 years we were together he only got my flowers twice. He would always argue with me over things that I would tell him and would say “you didn’t tell me that” because he was so stuck on his games. He would occasionally get food for dinner without offering me anything. I couldn’t have any friends. I couldn’t dye my hair without him and his family judging me for wanting to be me. Because “un-natural hair color isn’t professional” he was such a home body he didn’t like to go anywhere. I couldn’t have any of my friends over at the house and was made to block and stop talking to many friends. I couldn’t wear my tube tops or anything of the sort unless he was with me. When he thought that I was sleeping he would either go through my phone or lay in bed beside me and jack off. Should I also add in that the sex was so awful that after we would have adult fun time and he’d go shower I had to go and get my toy to finish myself. For the last few months of being with him I was so unhappy that everyone in my family could see it but I was constantly making excuses for him because I was so scared of being alone. All though I finally made the decision to leave it still hurts like hell and sometimes I feel like I made the wrong decision and think I should have stayed with him.