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Am I the Asshole?

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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/1_robbob_1 on 2024-01-18 11:04:38+00:00.


I’m heading overseas next week. Figured I’d make an early start on the dating apps, so I changed up my Hinge location to my holiday destination. I match with a girl and we start talking. We set in place a plan to meet up. This will be my first time meeting someone off of Hinge.

I told a close friend of mine about her and my plan to meet up with her. He was happy for me. That night, he told me he changed his Hinge location to the same city, and the same girl liked his profile and he matched with her. I found out they started chatting, and I’m pretty sure they’re now sending nudes back and forth.

I asked him (kindly) to stop, and I think he will, but the fact that I needed to ask him is a bit worrying.

From one point, the girl I matched with is not ‘mine’. She is free to do what she wants and talk with whoever she pleases. Same with my mate. But, there’s gotta be at least a hundred million good looking girls in the world, and I feel like it’s a dick move for my mate to sext the one girl I’m meeting up with in an entirely different part of the world.

Thoughts?

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