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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/Some-aroace8676 on 2024-01-18 19:48:40+00:00.
Am I (16f) the asshole for eating my brothers (19m) Nutella and peanut butter and refusing to pay for it? Yesterday I heated up some Nutella form the pantry to dip some crackers in. While doing so I my brother asked what I was making from the other room I told him I was heating up Nutella. He got upset and asked if it was his, I was confused and unaware that he bought his own. My dad is the type of person who will buy things and then put them in the pantry randomly for us to have. So I assumed it’s be fine if I took some and this was after about a month or more of me starting to take form them. I will be the first to admit I do often take a lot, I had used about half of each container (what my brother said) of peanut butter and Nutella. When I told him I’m sorry I didn’t know it was his, he got more upset. He then said I’d have to pay for the peanut butter and Nutella. I then said he should label his food if he was going to put it in the pantry. I’m known for especially when I’m getting close to my period that I have a lot of chocolate. I will admit how I said it wasn’t the nicest of tone but I was upset that he was yelling at me. I also don’t have a job and have not a lot of money. I have about 50$ of my own physical money. I haven’t told my parents yet that this happened. Should I tell them? Was I the asshole? I’m just looking for some help with how to deal with this situation.