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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/LocomotiveEngineseer on 2024-01-19 07:55:28+00:00.
PCOS is "Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome" and it results in various estrogen-deficiency symptoms, like excessive hair growth in certain areas. My wife's is pretty mild, with just a little extra hair around her butt, and occasionally, her chin. I can easily deal with that, she grooms everything but the most sensitive places, and she's beautiful to boot. Classically beautiful enough that I want to paint her face on the nose of an airplane, 40's style. I have a lot of other reasons to love her, but I don't want to go off-topic.
Here's the deal, though. Just the other day, she told me she wanted to have sex out of the blue. No problem, there, I can get into the mood pretty fast. BUT RIGHT AFTER THAT, she decided to describe how she has an extra long hair on her nipple. The ones she wants me to put in my mouth during sex all the time. I told her that I can convince my mind to ignore that if I try, but there is no convincing my penis when she straight TELLS me that she has a long nipple hair. Hairy nipples are things men have, and I have a biological aversion to men because I am not gay.
I think I've done a pretty decent job of ignoring the PCOS stuff in favor of loving her for who she is, but she is just NOT getting over this temporary rejection of her sex. I understand, as much as I can. She's a woman, she wants to feel like she's always beautiful to me, always valued, and ideally, also beautiful in general. I also know she intended to test me a bit, because women have all kinds of ways to make men prove that they are faithful, manly, and also able to be manipulated a bit so we do what they want, but never too much, because that would indicate weakness.
We talked about it, I explained all of this to her and more, but she says she thinks I am the asshole for my penis not responding, and me continuing to think about her hairy nips which she refuses to trim now. Then she insisted I bring this to public trial, because she insist there is something wrong with me, or she just wants to have fun. Could be either.
So, AITA?